Whatever happens, it is just love....

I think that if you try to manipulate energies, you are not going to get the results that you want...

Love does not respond well to control, so it won't help to try to understand everything, only to remember that it is only Love...

When it comes to the Divine feminine, we often feel challenged..

We can ask ourselves a thousand questions, why him and not another one? what is so special about this person, and what is the fascination with them?

When the whole world is full of interesting people, that you meet everyday..

Why wait for the Mr right, when you can be with Mr right now?

Trying to rationalize your feelings, is not about knowing, but rather accepting the love that is being offered ,without any kind of specific conditions..

Accepting love for what it is, Energy, is the most difficult thing to do for the feminine ,because we can be stuck in behaviors or patterns of judgment of ourselves or the beloved...

Love does not judge, but accept things how they are...

It is to acknowledge that you are loved rather than wasting your time, loving and giving, and going against current...

I noticed that trying to push things is not right, because you get exhausted that way..

Trying to push things out for the feminine is like giving birth before the baby is fully grown. Love is like a child that is growing slowly and needs nurturing, sheltering, and time...

You cannot obtain anything by force... Love is ,or it is not...

It is a simple truth...

Even if you are not physically with the twin flame, there will be Angelic signs and manifestations that are not easy to explain.

Faith means to trust your heart..

I have noticed that there is a battle between the mind and the heart,...

We judge the heart to be irrational and the mind to be rational . you can not be told that you are in love, you just feel it, and then well..

If you don't trust it, you will never truly achieve surrender...

So you need to trust....

What is different with the twin flame template, is that it improves your ability to see truth, and your creativity surges as a response...

There is an absolute clarity of who you are, where you are going and what you are suppose to be doing in life...

It is like discovering your true purpose...

It is a huge reaction, to the feminine and the masculine colliding like Fire and Ice...

What is left is flowing waters...

I have noticed certain traits, in my twin that is his essence, and something unique to him.... 

I have had a lot of energy around protection and the energy of needing to feel safe... 

It is as if the energy of my twin is concerned about my safety and well being, and offers protection...

I felt it very strongly when i was in Norway, perhaps it was the most powerful energy that i felt.

I felt as if i was shielded, i often call Norway my shield...

Romantic love comes later in a way, after creation and protection.

I did not feel romantic with my twin flame at first, i felt more confused, and in need of explanations...
It is like working from the inside out...
And it challenges what we believe about romance altogether...

The twin flame energy is always in flux, shifting from one side to the other...
From the masculine to the feminine and vice-versa...

Ice is becoming a very powerful energy for me, as a protective barrier...

I have also started to work with Runic symbols that seem to cause some awareness in me .

It is like if light is being applied to areas of my life that needs sorting out, or needs looking at.

Nothing is left in the shadows,or in the dark, and so it brings great healing to me and my soul, without being able to express why all this is happening, but it feels like a great blessing..
Most of the work happens on the subconscious level...

I feel like the fish that is being hooked but i need not to be afraid,, i cannot swim against it, or i will get hurt, i need to allow myself to be pulled gently and trust that everything will be OK...

Whatever happens it is just Love....

In a spiritual Oneness, i need to honor my heart and his...

And remember that i am the woman he loves, and accept just the energy of that love in my everyday life...

Accepting love is the most challenging part of your learning process...

Because i am not with my twin flame, sometimes i feel that he does not care, and is busy with the material world, while his body is busy doing one thing, his soul is busy doing another...

We can come up with this judgement about our beloved , and asking why are they so blind to their own soul and so lost away from us

 My twin flame can appear disconnected from himself, but he is never truly disconnected from me...

But we have to be gentle and kind, because love is being offered to us, we must be in our own truth, and try to remain there...

Understanding that we are loved...

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I feel like when i am not communicating with my twin and living my life, i miss him, and so some communication must occur between us somehow...

Lately, i have woken up and said out loud, i miss him, as if it just occurred to me, as if it was new to me..

I never allowed myself to feel that i missed him, and that statement felt so strange and almost foreign..

I have been feeling surrounded by his energy and did not have any reason to feel that i missed him.

On the contrary i had so much more health, energy and creativity and spiritual growth. I felt genuinely filled with light and his love..

But recently i have felt i am missing him, in a different way...

I don't know if he feels the same emotional wave as me...

I wish my twin was more open to me, and could discuss things honestly with me..

I guess i wish he was more present and more aware...
It has become more obvious that it is his energy that is surrounding me and not someone else's...

Because twins are unique, they cannot be replaced by another person, there is a Oneness,

There are places and special moments, that can only be shared with them... .

And so perhaps there is a part of you that is unknown, and undiscovered on the material and spiritual plane...

For example New York City is one of the place that is important to me and my twin, as is Venice, London, and Oslo...

Are those resonances of the past or the future? we cannot tell, or are they just other dimension of existence, parallel to this One...

I do not know... But Love permeates all... Whatever happens, it is Divine Love...

Like a seed it needs flowing water to grow....

Resistance in twin flames...

I would like to speak a little about resistance in twin flames and what happens when one or both twins are resisting Union...

The connection is a bit like a scale, there is the masculine on one side and the feminine on the other, As nothing in the Universe which is Divine is divided, there is Oneness between the female part of the soul and the male.
Division is only an illusion between the two people involved in a twin flame relationship.
But on the physical plane, it is a reality . when the twins are apart they do not grow as much and cannot create Love and merge entirely.  Being together is ideal, but many obstacles stand in the way...

The Universe responds to both man and woman equally, but the Soul always strives towards Union.

There could be a great unbalance between twins.
Like a scale or a wheel, one twin can be higher than the other, sometimes much higher....
This creates all sorts of problems and makes it difficult for the couple to get together, on the physical plane.

The twin that seems to have more than the other is called the Dominant twin.
Those people, have more status, and more material manifestations, than the lower twin.

The lower twin  or watcher twin, is often someone who has been wounded emotionally to the point where they do not value their own lives.
They might have been murdered in past lives, or gone through ordeals in their present lives, where they felt life was not worth living.

They may suffer from a martyr syndrome, and see themselves as victims,choosing to suffer and live in miserable conditions, and asking themselves why bad things always happens to them.
They struggle with low self esteem, and self worth.
And in fact ,they might have been victims of  real crime, or abuse at some point in their lives.

On the plus side, they are often loving people who are always willing to help. They are selfless and altruist to a point of disregarding their own material reality.
They are often dreamers, and idealists that are not very good at keeping their feet on the ground.
They also are often spiritual and kind heated. genuine but shy and over sensitive...

Those people need to be brought out of their shell, and learn to value themselves more.
If they often feel that love is a struggle, or means suffering, loss and sadness, they must realize the truth, that Love is about healing...
Love is joy and light, and they must learn to affirm that truth...

Most of the people who fall in this category are female because they are willing to sacrifice themselves in order to give the masculine enough energy to climb the social ladder and generate financial gain and success.
They always put themselves second and allow people to drain energy from them leaving them exhausted and drained....
They need to learn how to stand up for themselves, and learn that they too are valued and loved...
Because they self sabotage and live in self denial, they are called the watcher twin, as they watch the world go by without living in it...
They contemplate and meditate, because they are afraid to join the flow of the living..
Fear is their biggest obstacle...

On the other side, the dominant masculine can become trapped in their material reality and Ego, and be as blind to spiritual truth.as a bat.
They are not willing or unable to listen to their heart.
They tend to analyse everything mentally or psychologically, and not really see the entire picture.
They judge and analyse everything and everyone..
They tend to spend time on details rather than expanding to the next level.of consciousness, and be open to the soul.
They can appear cold, and they can become conceited, and vain.

Having so much energy in their corner, mean they are able to demand a lot from others, and they can feel somehow entitled, and love adulation, and praises...
They are not able to understand how other see them, and don't deal well with criticism.
They do not see that their success is caused by their twin self- sacrifice.
They do not understand that the energy has to come from somewhere, they believe they are in charge and that the power rest with them.
They can hurt their twin by their ignorance and callousness.

On the positive side, they are very good with small details that bore everyone else, and are dependable, and generous...
They are blessed with a sharp intellect, and are good with practical matters..
They may also be good with finances, and are very reliable and punctual...

Being so unbalanced the twins have very little opportunity to meet, or socialize as they are always very apart from each other physically.

Both archetypes are present in the soul and equally those traits will be seen in both man and woman...
They are One and so they will act upon both extreme at different point in their lives...

One keep the other in check and vise-versa, they grow and learn from one another...
There is a constant exchange of energy between the man and woman, even when they are apart...

When the twin energy manifest Divine Love, it enlightens the whole soul, but only the one that has eyes can perceive that change, and so the one who is more receptive will feel those changes more intensely.
It will be more gradual when it comes to the sleeping twin...
One is awake and one is asleep, the twin that cannot see truth and light. in his conscious mind is asleep or blind....

However, the manifestation in the dominant masculine energy will be more sudden, and trey might experience losses, as they experienced success... Suddenly!
Some twins can become bankrupt, or loose abilities, status, respect, or reputation, also it affects their relationships with others, all can happens very quickly...

The connection is about harmony, so the energy, will shift to reestablishing balance in both twins, Meaning the one who is at the bottom will start to ascend materially and gain recognition, success, and praise.

While the twin at the top will start to fall and might be experiencing loss a some point whether material, physical or emotionally. everything is in a state of change, for both twin's benefit.

Also the dominant twin may have many nightmares or find difficult to sleep...
They may suddenly feel that something is missing in their lives, without being able to explain why...
They may feel a shift in their energy levels, and might become sick or tired more easily...

The dominant twin must regain balance, by learning humility, and becoming more spiritual, and accept truths and listen to his heart...

The lesser twin must learn to succeed, and accept financial and emotional fulfillment.

They must learn to trust that money is not the root of all evil, and that having does not mean the loss of innocence.
They must regain balance physically and allow material reality, to manifest in a positive way.

Both twins must open themselves to the connection, and each other...

Only when the balance is regained can they finally meet, and manifest partnership, and Union.

It is true that twin flames who are at the same level, achieve Union quicker and easier than those who are unbalanced, but because of the Paradigm of the world we live in, men tend to still be slightly higher than women ....

It is for the sake of the Soul that changes occur, to allow love to blossom....

When the masculine and the feminine meet and merge, all the differences between them vanishes, and only separation could have taught them about being together..

They do not oppose but compliment each other.
When one has a weakness, it is only to find, it is a strength in the other...
It is all about healing and love, resisting is not an option....

Love is like the skeleton key that opens all doors....
A door will not open by force, when truth is the lock...

Both twin flames must learn to honor their connection and each other...