Resistance in twin flames...

I would like to speak a little about resistance in twin flames and what happens when one or both twins are resisting Union...

The connection is a bit like a scale, there is the masculine on one side and the feminine on the other, As nothing in the Universe which is Divine is divided, there is Oneness between the female part of the soul and the male.
Division is only an illusion between the two people involved in a twin flame relationship.
But on the physical plane, it is a reality . when the twins are apart they do not grow as much and cannot create Love and merge entirely.  Being together is ideal, but many obstacles stand in the way...

The Universe responds to both man and woman equally, but the Soul always strives towards Union.

There could be a great unbalance between twins.
Like a scale or a wheel, one twin can be higher than the other, sometimes much higher....
This creates all sorts of problems and makes it difficult for the couple to get together, on the physical plane.

The twin that seems to have more than the other is called the Dominant twin.
Those people, have more status, and more material manifestations, than the lower twin.

The lower twin  or watcher twin, is often someone who has been wounded emotionally to the point where they do not value their own lives.
They might have been murdered in past lives, or gone through ordeals in their present lives, where they felt life was not worth living.

They may suffer from a martyr syndrome, and see themselves as victims,choosing to suffer and live in miserable conditions, and asking themselves why bad things always happens to them.
They struggle with low self esteem, and self worth.
And in fact ,they might have been victims of  real crime, or abuse at some point in their lives.

On the plus side, they are often loving people who are always willing to help. They are selfless and altruist to a point of disregarding their own material reality.
They are often dreamers, and idealists that are not very good at keeping their feet on the ground.
They also are often spiritual and kind heated. genuine but shy and over sensitive...

Those people need to be brought out of their shell, and learn to value themselves more.
If they often feel that love is a struggle, or means suffering, loss and sadness, they must realize the truth, that Love is about healing...
Love is joy and light, and they must learn to affirm that truth...

Most of the people who fall in this category are female because they are willing to sacrifice themselves in order to give the masculine enough energy to climb the social ladder and generate financial gain and success.
They always put themselves second and allow people to drain energy from them leaving them exhausted and drained....
They need to learn how to stand up for themselves, and learn that they too are valued and loved...
Because they self sabotage and live in self denial, they are called the watcher twin, as they watch the world go by without living in it...
They contemplate and meditate, because they are afraid to join the flow of the living..
Fear is their biggest obstacle...

On the other side, the dominant masculine can become trapped in their material reality and Ego, and be as blind to spiritual truth.as a bat.
They are not willing or unable to listen to their heart.
They tend to analyse everything mentally or psychologically, and not really see the entire picture.
They judge and analyse everything and everyone..
They tend to spend time on details rather than expanding to the next level.of consciousness, and be open to the soul.
They can appear cold, and they can become conceited, and vain.

Having so much energy in their corner, mean they are able to demand a lot from others, and they can feel somehow entitled, and love adulation, and praises...
They are not able to understand how other see them, and don't deal well with criticism.
They do not see that their success is caused by their twin self- sacrifice.
They do not understand that the energy has to come from somewhere, they believe they are in charge and that the power rest with them.
They can hurt their twin by their ignorance and callousness.

On the positive side, they are very good with small details that bore everyone else, and are dependable, and generous...
They are blessed with a sharp intellect, and are good with practical matters..
They may also be good with finances, and are very reliable and punctual...

Being so unbalanced the twins have very little opportunity to meet, or socialize as they are always very apart from each other physically.

Both archetypes are present in the soul and equally those traits will be seen in both man and woman...
They are One and so they will act upon both extreme at different point in their lives...

One keep the other in check and vise-versa, they grow and learn from one another...
There is a constant exchange of energy between the man and woman, even when they are apart...

When the twin energy manifest Divine Love, it enlightens the whole soul, but only the one that has eyes can perceive that change, and so the one who is more receptive will feel those changes more intensely.
It will be more gradual when it comes to the sleeping twin...
One is awake and one is asleep, the twin that cannot see truth and light. in his conscious mind is asleep or blind....

However, the manifestation in the dominant masculine energy will be more sudden, and trey might experience losses, as they experienced success... Suddenly!
Some twins can become bankrupt, or loose abilities, status, respect, or reputation, also it affects their relationships with others, all can happens very quickly...

The connection is about harmony, so the energy, will shift to reestablishing balance in both twins, Meaning the one who is at the bottom will start to ascend materially and gain recognition, success, and praise.

While the twin at the top will start to fall and might be experiencing loss a some point whether material, physical or emotionally. everything is in a state of change, for both twin's benefit.

Also the dominant twin may have many nightmares or find difficult to sleep...
They may suddenly feel that something is missing in their lives, without being able to explain why...
They may feel a shift in their energy levels, and might become sick or tired more easily...

The dominant twin must regain balance, by learning humility, and becoming more spiritual, and accept truths and listen to his heart...

The lesser twin must learn to succeed, and accept financial and emotional fulfillment.

They must learn to trust that money is not the root of all evil, and that having does not mean the loss of innocence.
They must regain balance physically and allow material reality, to manifest in a positive way.

Both twins must open themselves to the connection, and each other...

Only when the balance is regained can they finally meet, and manifest partnership, and Union.

It is true that twin flames who are at the same level, achieve Union quicker and easier than those who are unbalanced, but because of the Paradigm of the world we live in, men tend to still be slightly higher than women ....

It is for the sake of the Soul that changes occur, to allow love to blossom....

When the masculine and the feminine meet and merge, all the differences between them vanishes, and only separation could have taught them about being together..

They do not oppose but compliment each other.
When one has a weakness, it is only to find, it is a strength in the other...
It is all about healing and love, resisting is not an option....

Love is like the skeleton key that opens all doors....
A door will not open by force, when truth is the lock...

Both twin flames must learn to honor their connection and each other...