The absolute connection....

You cannot be with another person, but the twin, once you are on this journey of union and reunion..

Spirit asked me in a dream, why him, why this one and not another?, what is so special about this one?

And i couldn't articulate anything coherent, I felt everything i was thinking about, was the wrong answer.

I felt like a child ,as if i knew nothing...

Here i was ,believing this man to be my twin flame and yet i didn't know why?
I could not find a reason...

It was not because of his appearance, or what he had said, or  any of his talents, where he came from,, or his personality..

I had lived my life, believing in fairy tales...
Watching movies, where the perfect guy, always says the perfect thing.. You had me at Hello!

No, it was as if everyone else, was just a shadow of him.
Like a memory i could not place...
That did not have a name, or a face...
It was just the knowing of this energy....
It was like the wind ...

Everything reminded me of him even though i did not know it, or who he was,
I was haunted by him...

I was drawn to everything that had his vibration, and i could see how long i had looked for him in other people ,without realizing it...

Everything had happened naturally, without me making conscious choices...
And i realized i had been led to him..

When i met my twin, i thought i was closing a door, not opening a door...
Everything had happened out of my control...

Love was something that happened to me...
I did not choose it...
I did not choose him...
That was the right answer...

The feminine is very much caught into a web of deceit ,when it comes to selecting  a suitable partner.
Meeting someone in a public place is probably the most common....
We are told go out and get a date!

Twin flames are often of different age, live very far apart in distance, and there are many things that difference them, like religion, race, nationality..
How do they fit in that social paradigm?

Our mind are being mapped with stories...
But they are not our own...

It's so true that our life gets influenced one way or another.by those stories...
..
And our beliefs end up being a projection of endless dramas, we see in movies...
Human beings are obsessed with drama and death...
Just turn on the TV...

I don't want to bash the feminine, but we have a responsibility to ourselves and the masculine to end those dramas...
We are writing the story of our lives...
W can not fill it with monsters and shadows....


The feminine needs to get to grip with the fact that No, actually the masculine twin does not need coaching on Love.

You have to put your trust in the masculine, that he will come round on his own.
He is like the  Tarot card, the Emperor...
He is a deep thinking knight, with deep convictions...

By trying to control the connection, you are tying to impose your will on him... telling him what he should or should not feel..

You cannot force anyone to love you...
 Love is not about force, actually it is the absence of it...

You end up trying to control the twin..
It will start a war...
That is a bad idea..

Never was love about war and division, it is about oneness, and peace...

You may be in charge of your own growth, and responsible for yourself, but you cannot tell the masculine what to do...

You are not in charge of this connection..
No one put the feminine in charge, especially, not Spirit.
You have equal responsibility in this relationship...

Simply release control, because you may be causing the masculine to have doubts, and stay away from you...

The connection is equal and mutual.

Each part of the soul has a job to do...
Allow the masculine to protect and support you,.as it is intended..

You may come to term, that you have very negative views on the masculine energy, most  of us will have stored it from the past...
Release them...

It is your responsibility to do the work, and clear those obstacles...
Whatever is on your side , clear it...

Whatever you have learned about the masculine energies, has been accumulated over time,.
If it did not come from the pure source of divine love...

It is like a corrupted file.

Delete it from your life...

If an energy comes to you distorted , it can unbalance you, get rid of it....

Fear is a very powerful oppressor. It represents what stands in the way, it is opposition..

When you fear the masculine power not to protect you, but to attack, and harm,
It lessens your ability to trust in yourself...

You might feel you have a lot of latent baggage, coming up to your attention. Look at it...

All of this is created by negative interactions, you may have had with men in general.

It will start with the father and grow from there...
There is also  a dark social energy of the masculine,

The violent archetype,  all of this heavy resonance, affects us all...

The feminine and masculine energies can become charged with negative aspects.

Violence is not felt as violence, but as fear...
The feminine may find herself fearing the masculine energies.

Fear is the enemy of love..

Where Love fills the cup, fear will empty it...

I believe that is why men and woman fight constantly, they are out of balance with themselves and others.

Twin flame is about healing this Paradigm, and so being in this connection will highlight the area where you might have issues

The feminine will blame the masculine for certain things that happened in their past, or even in the world...
They forget the masculine twin is always there to heal, and help...

No one is perfect , but the energy of love is to offer assistance,  Sometimes it is simply to hold your twin and comfort them.
Nothing is more comforting than your twin's touch, and kind words...


When it comes to twin flames, there is the right  person, and  then all the other men, who end up basically being, the wrong ones...
It is very transparent...

Spiritually. love cannot hurt you, you cannot be let down by love, or feel unsupported or misunderstood.

The masculine is only asking to be allowed to Love...
He wants to Love and feel love...
He is saying trust me....

The truth is that feminine, you are only one side of this twin energy.

There is no chance really knowing what the masculine wants to say, unless he says it...
Stop speculating on what he thinks, and allow him to tell you...


It is to understand that a relationship is two people not one, two energies and not one.

You cannot be in a relationship alone, so you need to include and integrate the masculine.

Perhaps that is the most respect and love, you can show the masculine,

Trust him to make the right choices for the connection.. Trust that he knows...

If you create negative vibrations, you will reap the reward of those choices...
Because your twin is a part of you, not separate  from you...

You are meant to join in Union and become One.

Love is the absolute connection...